I confess
to being a real Olympic Games’s junkie. While I find the jingoism and the
commercialisation nauseating, I love the drama of the Games, the excitement and
energy, the joy and the wonder at what a human body can do. As James Magnusson,
the Australian swimmer, found out they can also be about evolving and growing
as a human being – and that after all is what we are all here to do. Fortunately
not many of us have to do it before a global media, largely determined to
peddle negativity and judgement.
Unfortunately
by the time many talented sports people reach representative honours it seems that often
the unadulterated pleasure they first discovered in being able to make their
body perform in balance and agility has been lost to the awful “F” words – fear of failure. There is a
subtle difference between urging someone to be the best they can be and
demanding of them that they always provide only their best.
Wouldn’t it
be better if from the start we were saying to talented athletes of all ages,
“Young man/lady you are a really amazing cricketer/runner/netballer, celebrate
that, enjoy yourselves and commit totally to that journey. But this is just an
nth of who you are. This oval/pitch/court/pool does not define you, your limitations
or your potential.
And tell yourself
as parents that your child being good at sport does not mean that you are
somehow superior members of the species – just blessed to be able to share the
journey with well co-ordinated children!
Perhaps
rather than asking elite athletes to name their greatest moments - invariably
their walks to the winner’s podium – we should encourage them to define their most sublime moment. That instant in
the 68th lap of a 5km pool session when body merged with mind and
soul and self realisation cemented self worth.
Or the moment in a quad-burning attack on a sand dune when teammates
gelled into one unified organism.
Everyone
who has ever played sport recognises that feeling and it’s the reason they love their sport. It’s the perfect wave, the
right shot played at precisely the right time when body bypassed mind chatter
and instinct took over.
If we treat the experience
of being a sports-person as only a path within the greater journey that is life, it can be a wonderful way for young people to learn many of life’s lessons
and to gain understanding of themselves, human nature and the power of body,
mind and, yes, soul. It is an opportunity to see the illusion inherent in sport
(it is after all only a game), and to do it anyway.
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